Kink refers to sexual activities, desires, or fantasies that go beyond conventional sexual norms. These can range from playful power dynamics (like BDSM) to other consensual acts that introduce new sensations or forms of pleasure. Kink emphasizes mutual enjoyment and exploration in a safe, consensual, and often creative way, allowing individuals or couples to discover and express parts of their sexuality that may not fit into mainstream practices. It’s important to remember that kink is rooted in consent and respect for boundaries.
When is it a Problem?
Often it is not!
A fetish is a strong sexual attraction or fixation on a specific object, body part, or activity that is essential for sexual arousal or fulfillment. Common fetishes include specific fabrics, shoes, or even particular body parts like feet. Fetishes can enhance one’s sexual experience when integrated consensually with a partner. However, it becomes a problem when it causes distress, disrupts relationships, or leads to harmful behavior, either to oneself or others. It’s important to distinguish between harmless explorations and unhealthy compulsions that dominate one’s life or relationships.
Will you be shocked or think I’m sick when I tell you…?
Nope, I am not going to ‘yuck on your yum’. After all, those who live in glass houses…
Can I be Polyamorous and Happy?
Ethical Non-Monogamy, including polyamory, is the practice or desire to engage in multiple romantic or intimate relationships simultaneously with the full knowledge and consent of everyone involved. For instance, polyamory is different from other forms of non-monogamy because it has a relationship focus on emotional connections and often long-term bonds.
Can it be healthy and joyful?
I’ve written multiple books on polyamory based on my experience. I can assist you and your relationships to reach the happiness and joy that can come with multiple loving relationships.
